If I could summarize three emotions or thoughts I walked away with after seeing Young Adult, they are: empathy, the familiar recognition of the carnage of life, and moments of dark, simpatico humor.
There are two scenes that stick out for me: 1) When Mavis is at the other end of an act of unkindness from her ex's wife's friend. And, when she thinks no one is watching all the hurt and pain and wretchedness of that recognition is in her eyes and probably everyone has had that moment. And, then she sees Matt watching her with what I like to call "pain recognition". It broke my heart and reminded me of the times you are aware that everyone thinks you deserve to feel bad about yourself. 2) Mavis reveals a painful secret, one that most likely forged, in part, and the direction her life took. And, you see why she left and why, besides Matt and his sister, these are not particularly likable people in Mercury. And, they are certainly no more likable than we are supposed to think Mavis is.
I didn't think Mavis was unlikeable at all. I thought she was someone who had some problems that no one was around to help her with in Minneapolis. And, in Mercury she found an unlikely support system, people seemed to care, or at least understand her, far more than her own family: Matt and his sister, Sandra.
The person I watched asked me what I thought happened to Mavis. I said "She isn't going to be a different person; but she might forge a slightly different future for herself." Even if that isn't the case, I knew she would never go home and she wasn't going to forge a future in Mercury. Kind of a rite of passage in the midst of a breakdown. It happens. And, that's why I liked this film.
Charlize, Patton, and Collette, and (frankly Dolce :)) all brilliant.
There are two scenes that stick out for me: 1) When Mavis is at the other end of an act of unkindness from her ex's wife's friend. And, when she thinks no one is watching all the hurt and pain and wretchedness of that recognition is in her eyes and probably everyone has had that moment. And, then she sees Matt watching her with what I like to call "pain recognition". It broke my heart and reminded me of the times you are aware that everyone thinks you deserve to feel bad about yourself. 2) Mavis reveals a painful secret, one that most likely forged, in part, and the direction her life took. And, you see why she left and why, besides Matt and his sister, these are not particularly likable people in Mercury. And, they are certainly no more likable than we are supposed to think Mavis is.
I didn't think Mavis was unlikeable at all. I thought she was someone who had some problems that no one was around to help her with in Minneapolis. And, in Mercury she found an unlikely support system, people seemed to care, or at least understand her, far more than her own family: Matt and his sister, Sandra.
The person I watched asked me what I thought happened to Mavis. I said "She isn't going to be a different person; but she might forge a slightly different future for herself." Even if that isn't the case, I knew she would never go home and she wasn't going to forge a future in Mercury. Kind of a rite of passage in the midst of a breakdown. It happens. And, that's why I liked this film.
Charlize, Patton, and Collette, and (frankly Dolce :)) all brilliant.
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