OK, so there's a lot of back story to wade through, still better than just leaving us guessing.
As for one reviewer's obsession with date rape drugs, get over yourself.
As far back as the turn of the last century there was this think called a Mickey Finn, as in slip someone a Mickey in their drink to knock them out. And the girl's intention was to incapacitate her victim in order to rip him off, not have her way with him.
The fact that you focus on that one instance says a lot more about you than about the quality of the show.